"This is going to sound like a pretty random comment but hey, such is life. I stumbled across your page a while ago and the way you think has captivated me. I can see that you have a complex and interesting mind, on top of which you have your beauty. The question that I cant understand is how are you single? On which note I must also ask (if it isnt too personal) what do you look for in a guy? What would be your ideal guy?"
This comment I loved, so I'm going to take great care in answering it. So much care infact it's a blog post - feel special.
Okay so first question: Why am I single?
Because I destroy every relationship I have, and also hold a reputation which puts other guys off of me. Simple enough, really.
What do I look for in a guy?
This is a hard one. A good taste in music, I like to have someone I can talk to about stuff like that. But I don't want them to have such an intense knowledge about everything - I don't like to feeling inadquete to someone. I'd like them to be attractive, but not in an obvious way. Good personal hygiene I would prefer, even if it's not returned on my part. A nice bit of muscle but not obsessive amounts. Is an absolute charmer, I'm a sucker for that sort of thing. Will put me in my place when the time calls for it, but doesn't belittle or patronize me. Is good in alien social situations, making a good impression on my family is an absolute must. Also, if he doesn't laugh at my jokes he's definitely out. Someone who loves me just as much as I do them. I don't want people to love me more, that's when it doesn't work.
What would be my ideal guy?
Someone interesting but normal and lovely and attractive and has nice hugs. I actually don't know yet if I'm totally honest.
But all in all, I loved that comment. It really made my day. So thank you.